If your lover has ever caused you physical harm on purpose you need to get out of the relationship immediately no questions asked. Physical abuse is a very serious situation not to be dealt with lightly.
No matter how much you two love each other, there is plenty of time to get to know each other and no need to move too fast. Moving too fast and then later finding out that your lover is a loser could put you in a very bad situation.
Everyone loses their temper from time to time. What is important is that they direct their anger appropriately. If it happens too frequently, or they lash out at you, then you need to get out of the relationship right away.
Your lover has no reason to insult you at any time. If there is a correction to be made, or they feel uncomfortable about something, it should be talked about one to one and in a non-attacking manner.
No one is expected to get along with everybody all the time, but people should make an effort to act civilized around others they don't get along with. If your lover tries to keep you from your loved ones then you should leave.
Your lover should treat you kindly and consistently. It is okay if their behavior varies if they had been to a hardship or are going through a change such as a move or new job, but erratic behavior should be avoided.
There is no reason the play the blame game, but people should account for their actions and admit fault when appropriate. If your lover always need to blame someone else, including you, then you need to end the relationship.
Almost every relationship has a breakup or two in the beginning, which is perfectly normal. However, if your lover reacts very strongly by calling every few minutes or mentioning suicide, then the breakup should remain permanent.
There is no need for your lover to participate in every activity you do. It is healthy to have a few activities that you do on your own. However, if your lover attempts to prevent you from doing them, than a breakup is in order.
Trust is vital for a successful relationship. If there is no trust, then the relationship is doomed to fail. If your lover is checking up on you, then they do not trust you. Your best course of action is to move on.
There is never an excuse for public embarrassment, especially when it involves your lover. Unintentional situations occur all the time and as long as your lover realizes it then it is okay. If not, then there is a serious problem.
In a healthy relationship, both sides should be content and satisfied with the other. If this is not the case, the dissatisfied one may show dissatisfaction with you, but in reality are dissatisfied with themselves.
No one is ever entitled to punish anyone at any time. If your lover ever feels they are entitled to punish you, your friends and family or even a stranger such as a driver on the road, then you need in the relationship soon.
It would be silly to expect all your friends and family members to think your boyfriend is absolutely wonderful, but if the vast majority of them dislike your lover, then this could be a sign that something is seriously wrong.
If your lover has a negative or even violent past, then it is very likely that this will also be in their future. If your lover often talks about a negative past, then you might want to place them in your past as well and move on.
A socially stable person treats everyone about the same. If your lover treats you well, but treats others of the opposite sex very poorly, then this how you will be treated in your future as well. Get out while you still can.
Your lover's friends should think highly of him or her. However, if your lover's friends fall into two camps, one thinking your lover is great and the other thinking your lover is serious trouble, it is a sign of a serious problem.
You should be able to a talk about pretty much anything and behave like you would normally do around your lover. If you feel that you have to suppress behavior or conversation, then you need to get out of the relationship soon.
Socially healthy people will feel empathy for other people's feelings and respect their opinions. If your lover doesn't care about how others feel and disregards or gets angry about their opinions, that it is time to move on.
Your behavior should not change much when you are with your lover. If you find that you are defending yourself, covering your tracks or even avoiding friends and family, then you should end the relationship soon.
You have a truly incredible and wonderful lover. You should hang onto this person for the rest of your life. Hopefully you are married or have wedding plans in the near future. You will have a long-lasting happy relationship.
Congratulations, you have a very special relationship that most people do not get to enjoy. Your lover respects and treats you very well. I would stay with this person and hopefully get married in the future.
Other than a few minor issues, you seem to have a very nice lover. You can work on the rough spots by talking about it among yourselves or with a professional. You have the potential for long successful relationship.
Your lover is above average when it comes to treatment and respect. You still have some issues to deal with, but if you both put some effort into it, then the potential there is for a long and rewarding relationship.
You are right in the middle when it comes to your lover. You are among the majority and deal with an average amount of problems with the relationship. Your chances of a successful relationship are about 50-50.
Your lover causes you more hardship and stress than average. This does not mean you have to give up and move on. If your lover is willing to put in an effort to improve the situation, then there is still lots of potential.
It appears your lover has lots of problems, some of which could be unsafe. Your best course of action is to end the relationship as smoothly as possible and move on. There is a very low chance of the relationship been successful.
It is quite clear that your lover is a loser. You and your friends and family could be in danger. You really need to get out of the relationship as soon as possible at all costs. Your lover possesses many dangerous behaviors.
You and possibly others are in extreme danger! You need to stop seeing this person immediately as they are very dangerous. You may need to contact the authorities or other professionals to stay safe during the breakup.