Thinking about same sex experiences does necessarily not mean you are gay. People fantasize about almost anything, but that does not mean they will actually perform the activity that they fantasize about.

People usually talk about things that are on their minds. If you find yourself talking about homosexuality often, then it is on your mind for some reason. It is possible that you may be wondering about your own sexuality.

This is a big one. If you often wonder if you are gay, then there is a real possibility that you are. It is possible that you may think about the same-sex, but this is rather common and may not mean you are gay.

Finding a person of the opposite sex attractive does not necessarily mean that you want to have sex with them. However, if this happens quite often, especially if you feel it is sexual in nature it could be a sign you are gay.

Simply hanging around gay people does not mean that you are gay. If you're friends are gay, or you live in an area where lots of gay people like to visit, then it is only natural for you to be around people who are gay.

Simply kissing a person of the same-sex does not make you gay. However, if you really enjoy it and want to do it more often than that might be a different matter. Frequent kissing of the same-sex means you are probably gay.

If you are okay with the gay community, that means that you are open-minded, but not necessarily gay. In fact, people who are openly against the gay community are quite often gay themselves but have not faced it yet.

If you frequent strip clubs to see people of the opposite sex and enjoy it, it is unlikely that you are gay. However, if you don't frequent them, there are many other reasons besides being gay for not going to a strip club.

Most gay bars in this country are frequented by straight people as well the gay community. Gay bars also offer many forms of entertainment. Simply going to see this entertainment with friends does not mean that you are gay.

Not watching contact sports does not mean you are gay by any means. Contact sports are less popular amongst gay people, but some enjoy them very much. There are many other reasons for not wanting to watch contact sports.

Show tunes are extremely popular among gay people. Many people that work in theater are gay. This is one of the main reasons why the show's tunes are so popular among them. Simply liking show tunes does not make you gay, however.

This is a tricky one. Phobias are based on fear, so if you are homophobic, it could be based on your fear of being gay yourself. It is very common for a homophobic person to turn out to be gay themselves.

People of the same-sex hug all the time. This is a widely accepted and common practice and by no means indicates that you are gay. If you have men excessively and enjoy it that could be another matter.

Going to a piano bar does not mean you are gay. It was more common for the gay community to frequent piano bars in the past, but that isn't as common today. People go to a piano bars today to enjoy the music and sing along.

Key West, Provincetown, Palm Springs and Ogunquit are popular among gays, but they are also very popular tourist spots. Unless you go to these places to meet other gay people, visiting them does not mean you are gay.

Music by Barry Manilow and the Carpenters is popular in the gay community. Enjoying this music does not mean that you are gay. Music by Barbra Streisand, Bette Midler and other soft rock artists are also popular.

Being turned on by pictures of people of the same-sex on occasion is actually quite normal. If you find yourself getting turned on frequently, or almost every time, then it is very likely that you are gay.

Flossing your teeth is a way to prevent tooth decay and gum disease and has nothing to do with being gay. However, it is often thought that people who are meticulous about certain things might indicate that they are gay.

If someone thinks they might be gay, especially in the beginning, they will most likely keep it a secret from others. One of the best ways to explore gay sex is to do it privately online by viewing pictures and videos.

Being turned on by seeing the genitals of the same-sex is actually quite normal and no need for concern. If you find yourself getting turned on all the time, then it might be time to start thinking about whether you might be gay.

There is no question about it, you are completely straight. If you are accepting of the gay community that is even better. Being accepting and having gay friends has no impact on your sexuality whatsoever.

Although you might have done some exploring, which is perfectly normal, you are definitely straight. Just because you may have wondered about or even tried non sexual same-sex activities, this by no means makes you gay.

You are predominately straight, but have or may explor same-sex activity. This does not mean that you will have sex, but you do have some interest in the gay community. It is very unlikely that you will become completely gay.

It is more likely that you are straight than gay. However, there is a possibility that you could be gay or bisexual. There is a good chance that you may have at least one same-sex sexual encounter, but you may not necessarily be gay.

You are right down the middle it comes to being straight or gay. There is also a good chance you could be bisexual. You may want to consider exploring the possibilities. The sooner that you do this, the better off you will be.

You are more likely gay than straight. You are already pretty aware of this as your interest in the same-sex is difficult to ignore. It is best not to hold back and if you haven't come out, you may want to do so soon.

As you are probably well aware, you are most likely gay. You may have had straight relationships, but much prefer the same-sex. You most likely have had several partners already and have already come out.

You are definitely gay and probably took this quiz out of curiosity. You most likely realized you were gay at a very young age and never really tried to fight it. Realizing this probably made your life much easier.

There is no question that you are completely gay. You have no interest in heterosexual activity whatsoever. It is very nice to see that the world is more accepting of the gay community. You are gay and proud of it.


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Have you ever wondered if you are gay? Does the thought of this make you feel uneasy? Do you often think about people of the same sex in more than just a friendly way? What type of behaviors do you think could mean that you are gay? Are there questionable behaviors that really don't mean you are gay at all? To answer these questions, you can answer some your own to find out. Take our mega quiz and answer questions about attraction to the same-sex to see where you stand. There are questions about sexual encounters, activities and hobbies, the type of people you hang out with and many other questions related to same-sex experiences. This quiz will probably be the most difficult to be honest with yourself. The only way to achieve an accurate result is to be completely honest with your answers. This might seem like an impossible task, but it can be done. Lower scores mean you're less likely to be gay. We hope you enjoy this mega quiz.

Your results will appear here.

1. How often do you think about same-sex experiences?

a) I never have
b) I might have once
c) I think about them fairly often
d) I think about them all the time


2. How often do you talk about homosexuality?

a) I never do
b) Very rarely
c) Fairly often
d) All the time


3. How often have you wondered if you are gay?

a) I never thought I was
b) Maybe once in my younger teens
c) I seem to wonder from time to time
d) I wonder if I am gay all the time


4. How often have you found a person of the same sex attractive?

a) Never
b) Just once
c) A few times
d) I do all the time


5. How often do you hang around gay people?

a) I never do
b) Very rarely
c) Fairly often
d) All the time


6. How often have you kissed a person of the same sex?

a) Never
b) Maybe on the cheek at a party
c) I have a few times
d) I do it quite a lot


7. How do you feel about gay people?

a) I'm not really for it, and think that is not right
b) I feel somewhat uncomfortable
c) It doesn't bother me at all
d) I think they are wonderful


8. How often do you go to strip clubs to watch people of the opposite sex?

a) I have done it quite a lot
b) Just a few times
c) Just once
d) I never have


9. How often have you been to a gay bar?

a) Never have and never will
b) Once, by mistake
c) A few times, but mostly with friends
d) I go quite a lot


10. How often do you watch contact sports?

a) Several times a week and every weekend
b) Maybe on some weekends
c) Very rarely
d) Never


11. Do you enjoy show tunes?

a) Not quite sure what they are
b) Not really
c) I enjoy some of them
d) I absolutely love them and know the words to most of them


12. Do you consider yourself homophobic?

a) No, not at all
b) Just a little bit
c) I am somewhat
d) Yes I definitely am


13. Have you ever hugged a person of the same sex?

a) Just family members
b) Maybe a few close friends
c) Quite a few times
d) I do all the time


14. Have you ever been to a piano bar?

a) No, why would I
b) I did once, but didn't care for it
c) There is one I visit every summer
d) I am addicted to them


15. What do Key West, Provincetown, Palm Springs and Ogunquit have in common?

a) I hadn't even heard of most them
b) They are all beautiful tourist destinations
c) I think they might be where gay people like to visit
d) I have been to all of them, so of course I know what they have in common


16. Do you enjoy music by Barry Manilow or the Carpenters?

a) Not a chance
b) Maybe one or two songs
c) They are okay
d) I love them and know the words too


17. How often do pictures or videos of people of the same sex turn you on?

a) Never
b) Maybe once or twice
c) Fairly often
d) All the time


18. How often do you floss your teeth?

a) Never
b) A few times per week
c) Once per day
d) After every meal


19. How often have you looked at gay adult sites or video?

a) I never have
b) I did once out of curiosity
c) I have a few times
d) I do it all the time


20. Have you ever been turned on by seeing the genitals of the same sex, such as in a public shower?

a) No way
b) Maybe once as a young teen
c) Yes, a few times
d) Yes, I definitely do


About the Author

Susanne Brown works for Softgame Company, maker of card games, video poker and puzzles. She works on the company web sites and does editorial work.

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