If your lover has started going out to clubs and bars recently and is showering more often, especially right before going out, it could be a sign that he's getting ready to cheat on you. He has grown tired of relationship and is looking for someone new to meet and possibly have sex with. He is probably using his charm and old pickup lines to meet new women at the bar. It might be a good idea to have a friend of yours go to his favorite bar and check up on him just to stay on the safe side. A caring friend will very likely understand your predicament and be happy to help.

If your lover has been visiting adult sites frequently, then there is a very good chance he may be getting ready to cheat on you. If he is happy with you on a sexual level then there should been no reason to visit these types of sites. If he is visiting these sites, then he is looking for new ways to satisfy his sexual desire. He may start out by viewing pictures and watching videos, then move up to watching live video where he interacts with women online. Finally, he will eventually have physical sex with another woman. If he is unwilling to talk about it with you, then you should be prepared to be cheated on.

If your lover is no longer interested in having sex, or simply goes through the motions, then he is no longer satisfying his sexual desires with you. It is only a matter of time before he will seek other ways to find sexual desire. He may go out to bars, or go online to test the waters and see what's out there. There could be other reasons why he has lost interest in sex, however. If he is willing to discuss them with you then that as a good sign and could revive your sexual lives. However, if he avoids the subject, or worse yet, gets upset when the topic is brought up, then this could be a sign he is simply not satisfied and is very likely to cheat on you.

If your lover is thinking about cheating on you, he may try to validate it in his mind before attempting to do so. This is a way of lowering the guilty conscience associated with cheating on their lover. If he convinces himself that it is okay, he will eventually try to convinced you as well. He may suggest having a three-way or that monogamy is old-fashioned or overrated. There is never a valid reason to cheat on your lover. If he feels he can convince both himself and you that it is okay to cheat, then it will clear a major obstacle and increase his chances of cheating on you.

If your lover is thinking about sex with other women, then he is not satisfied with his sex with you. He may talk about other women, both past and present, or visit areas were single women are present, such as a bar. If he seems distant, or has started daydreaming a lot, his mind may be other things, most likely other women. This is especially true if nothing major has changed in his life recently that could distract him. If your instinct tells you that something doesn't seem right, or his behavior has recently changed a lot, this could also be a sign that he is thinking about sex with other women. At this point he is only one step away from cheating on you.

If your lover fails to mention you when talking with other women, then he is trying to hide the fact that he is with someone. There is only one reason for him to do this and it is not a good one. By doing this, he is leaving all of his options open for the potential of dating or having sex with these women. Although he may not attempt this right away, this is a sure sign that he may attempt it in the future. A satisfied lover would mention you throughout the conversation to avoid any misunderstandings. Failure to do this probably means he may be about to cheat on you.

If your lover has recently started complaining about the relationship more frequently, this is a sure sign that he's no longer happy with the relationship. This could be for any number of reasons. If he is unwilling to discuss ways to improve the relationship, then he may be dissatisfied sexually with the relationship. Rather than talk about his lack of sexual desire, he will make up of other excuses as to why the relationship isn't working. One of the least comfortable topics to talk about and hanging relationship is sexual issues, so if he seems hesitant than the reason is most likely sexual. Lack of sexual satisfaction is the number one reason for someone to cheat on their lover.

If your lover has been more sympathetic toward his friends that are cheating on their own lovers, then your lover may be attempting to justify any future attempt to cheat on you. He may even attempt to blame his friend's lovers themselves for the reason they were cheated on. This is just another attempt to clear the way of many obstacles that would deter him from cheating on you. If he supports his friends when they cheat, perhaps they will support him when he finally cheats on you. If this behavior has shown up suddenly, then it shouldn't be long before he cheats himself.

If your lover has changed his activities or work habits to expose himself to more single women, he is most likely opening himself up to meet new women and potentially have sex with them. He may suddenly start working late with a female coworker when he has never done so before. He may also join cooking classes, take dance lessons or even join a club or group that has a vast majority of female members. These changes will most certainly allow him to meet new single women. At this point there is only one thing on his mind, and that is to have sex with these other women and cheat on you.

If your lover is suddenly giving you lots of details about who he is with, especially when it comes to other women, he is preparing himself for the moment when he actually cheats on you. He may never leave the house without an alibi and will give you every detail about where he plans on going. Of course this may not always be the truth as he is simply practicing for the big moment. Eventually, every time he goes out, especially if there are other single women present, he will give you every detail about who he met and where and when he met them. Most often the stores will be skewed or downright lies.

You shouldn't ever have to worry about your lover cheating on you. You are among the largest and safest group of people in relationships. Your lover is satisfied with you and you fulfill his sexual desires. If he goes out, it is most likely to be with his friends or to do an activity that he has probably been doing most of his life. He doesn't have any interest in having sex with other women.

For the most part you are safe from your lover cheating on you. However, other women may spark his interest from time to time. This does not mean he wants to have sex with them, but he may be curious at times. Just be on the alert for any change in his habits, especially when it comes to going out, your sex life and activities he partakes in. If he is willing to talk about these changes that is a good sign.

There is about a 50-50 chance that your lover will cheat once in his life time. This does not necessarily mean it will be with you. It is quite possible he may have cheated well before he met you and won't cheat again. You should carefully watch for changes in his behavior. Be on the lookout for late work nights or a sudden increase in nights out with his buddies. These could be signs that he may attempt to cheat on you.

Your lover has a higher than average risk of cheating on you. He may have cheated in the past before he met you, and it is very likely he will cheat on you. He may go in and out of phases where he goes out to meet people. Eventually, he may go too far and meet another woman that he's attracted to and have sex with her. Watch for warning signs such as changes in sexual behavior with you, late nights out or complaints about the relationship.

It is very likely that your lover is a lifelong cheater. He will probably never be able have a committed relationship, especially when it comes to sex. He is constantly on the prowl to meet new women to have sex with. You will notice that the sex will be great when you first meet him, but it will fade fairly quickly and early in the relationship. He will stay out late many nights and may even have a job that involves long-distance travel. Unless you don't mind being cheated on, it would be in your best interest to move on.

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Is your lover about to cheat? by Trisha Ellington RSS Feed AddThis Social Bookmark Button

Are you starting to get this uneasy feeling that your lover is getting ready to cheat on you? Have you been finding it harder to trust him lately? You may feel inclined to blame yourself for being paranoid, but it is most likely that your feelings are justified. If you are starting to feel that your lover is about to cheat on you, you are probably right. Certain instincts are there for a reason and serve as a warning system for your protection. It may be in your best interest to heed them. You can take our quiz and answer a few questions and see if your feelings are justified. Answer the following questions as honestly as possible and find out if your lover is about to cheat on you. The lower the score the better.

Your results will appear here.


1. What has your lover's night life been like recently?

a) Pretty much the same, we always go out together at night
b) Every once in a while he will go out with his friends
c) He has been going out alone more frequently
d) He is suddenly going out several times per week by himself, often showering before he leaves

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2. What type of web sites has your lover visited recently?

a) We don't have Internet or he visits similar sites that he always has, such as sports and hobbies
b) He did visit one adult site recently
c) He did visit a few adult sites recently
d) He has recently started visiting adult sites on a daily basis

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3. What has your sex life with your lover been like recently?

a) It is still the same and quite good
b) It has become somewhat less frequent
c) It has become less frequent and shorter in duration
d) What sex life, if we ever have sex at all he just goes through the motions

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4. What has you lover's stance on cheating been recently?

a) He never felt it was right, and still feels that way
b) He hasn't really talked about it with me
c) One time he asked me to explore 'other' options
d) He has mentioned threesomes and says that monogamy is overrated

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5. How often do you feel your lover is thinking about sex with other woman?

a) I don't feel he is thinking about that at all
b) Sometimes I feel he is thinking about it, but most men do occasionally anyway
c) He has been doing a lot of daydreaming lately and I fear it may be about sex with other women
d) Recently, he is often in never-never land, less responsive in bed and has talked in his sleep mentioning other women's names

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6. When talking with other women recently, does your lover mention you?

a) Yes he does mention that he has a girlfriend right away
b) He may not mention me for quite some time, but eventually does
c) Quite often he will not mention me at all
d) Not only does he never mention me, he does nothing to end the conversation with her

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7. How much has your lover complained about the relationship recently?

a) He is rather quiet and rarely complains of all
b) There have been a few complaints thrown in from time to time
c) He seems to be complaining about the relationship more often
d) He complains and constantly talks about how bad the relationship is and often discusses it with other women

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8. How has your lover treated his cheating friends lately?

a) He condemns their behavior as usual
b) He may sympathize once in a great while
c) He has become supportive of them more often
d) He supports them every time and often blames their girlfriends as the reason for cheating

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9. How has your lover's work habits, hobbies or activities changed recently?

a) They have not changed at all
b) He recently changed to an activity that involves more women than men
c) He now does several activities that involve more women than men
d) He spends almost all of his free time with activities involving mainly women

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10. How has your lover handled excuses to be out with friends or other women lately?

a) He has never really said much, and feels there is no reason to
b) Sometimes he has been telling me who he is going to go out with
c) He often tells me the women he was with when he has gone out
d) Recently, he has been telling me every detail of who he goes out with and every women he sees

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Trisha Ellington works for Softgame Company, maker of card games, video poker and puzzles. She works on web sites, designs games and does graphic work.

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